c'est la bie
“She was elusive. She was today. She was tomorrow.
She was the faintest scent of a cactus flower.”

Anonymous said:
hi darling, how is your college experience so far?

Wow hey, hi Anon :’)

Mmm, so far my college experience has been going well! The people at my college are quite nice from what I’ve seen thus far. My classes are going well and I hope it stays this way.. LOL. And I have some good friends who are with me on this crazy freshman journey so I’m not too worried. 

Thank you for asking :’)~!~!~!

"I’m always soft for you, that’s the problem. You could come knocking on my door five years from now and I would open my arms wider and say ‘come here, it’s been too long, it felt like home with you.’"

Azra.T “My Heart is Full of Open Windows.” (via bl-ossomed)

I found a few old writings of mine and decided to compile them here. I really do hope that I’ll overcome this prolonged writer’s block so I can get back into this (y) yis.

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1. If he doesn’t answer, don’t keep sending texts. If he wanted to talk to you, he would’ve responded.

2. People will make time for you when they care about you. If he says he’s too busy or constantly cancels his plans, he doesn’t care. People fight for you when they care.

3. Don’t let him touch you on the first date. If he tries, he’s not there for the same reasons you are.

4. You can tell a lot about a person by their favorite book.

5. If he can stomach more than ten straight shots without feeling a thing, he drinks too much.

6. Ask the uncomfortable things. When was the last time he was so high he couldn’t speak? What does he regret the most? Does he drink to remember or to forget?

7. Don’t send pictures unless you want to. If he has to talk you into it, don’t do it. If you hesitate, don’t do it. If you do take a picture, don’t include your face. Keep yourself safe.

8. If you can’t laugh when you’re having sex with him, maybe you aren’t sleeping with the right person. Sex isn’t about tricks and tips and routines.

9. If he hurts you, cut him out. He’s gone, he isn’t coming back, and you don’t need to prolong the pain.

10. Don’t be afraid to open up again. I promise not everyone will love you with a knife behind their back.


Boy advice from someone who made the same mistakes too often (via guiseofgentlewords)

quiet reminder for myself and anyone else who needs it


  • you’re alive
  • you’re okay
  • you have people who care about you
  • you can do this
  • it’s okay to be scared and overwhelmed, just don’t let it consume you
  • you’re okay
  • you can do this
  • today might not be a good day, but you’re alive and that’s okay
  • it’s okay
  • you’re okay
  • deep breaths
  • you’re okay


What’s that on your hand????? *holds it* itS ME

"Keep on dreaming boy, keep on dreaming boy
Someday, you’ll be fine, someday, you will shine
Someday you’ll be loved, someday you will smile
Without those tears, without those tears"

피터팬은 죽었다/ Peterpan Died (via nellyrics)

"I am a very private person, yet I am an open book.
If you don’t ask…I won’t tell."

(via haileymr)


Always pray to have:
1. Eyes that see the best in people.
2. A heart that forgives the worst.
3. A soul that never loses faith.


"If you think that it wouldn’t make a difference
if you killed yourself,
I’m telling you that you’re wrong.
Because you’ve impacted so many people already,
and the fingerprints you’ve left
on people’s lives
will be the everlasting difference
that you’ve made."

N.E.W.,  Please Stay, You Matter. (via lookingforsomeonewhocares)

"If a man does not know the value of his own loneliness, how can he respect another’s solitude?"

Thomas Merton, “No Man Is An Island” (via litverve)